HISTORYWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·Þ季然 01-17-2006, 14:50
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞyunfengGG是在想象自己过去以后的生活么?
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·Þyunfeng 01-17-2006, 17:26
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·Þnot imagine, but are reading some books about African life. It is far from being romantic.
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·Þsavagextakuya 01-18-2006, 8:55
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞIt reminds of the "Live 8" during the G8 conference.
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·Þdainny2000 01-18-2006, 12:42
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞThank you for your song,savage!
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·Þdainny2000 01-18-2006, 12:43
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞLife in Africa isn't romantic,but if you think it is, it will be.Everthing depends on your own feeling.
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·Þyunfeng 01-18-2006, 12:48
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞI quite agree with you on that, Dainny.
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·Þdainny2000 01-18-2006, 12:50
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·Þ谢谢,yunfeng哥哥,愿你今后在那里的每一天都好,都愉快,因为这里每一个人都祝福着你。
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞLoyce 01-18-2006, 13:02
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞBasically, I want to have a happy family and several closed friends. And everyone is healthy and happy as I am. Life is simple but true.
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞBTW, My best friend lost himself these days, he doesn't know what he want for his life, what he gonna to achieve... just lost compeletly. I want to make him find himself again and be happy. Do you know what can I do for him.? I told him before everyone needs to know what he/she really want in whole life, maybe till now, he is still on the way to realize....
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·Þyunfeng 01-18-2006, 13:11
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞStaying indoors and worrying is of no use at all. The best way to know oneself is to go out and experience the life.
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·Þyunfeng 01-18-2006, 13:18
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞGo find some part time jobs that you may like. It was the suggestion from my former college teacher. And I benefited greatly from it.
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·Þsavagextakuya 01-19-2006, 9:43
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞDear Loyce,
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞPractically, you can help him by finding his strong points and weak points, what he can do and what he's not qualified now. Then he will become more knowledgable about himself and make a decision.
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞThere's a Chinese idiom going as "步步为营"(Move Forward Step by Step ?) . At present, he shall make short-term plan such as take an exam or find a job, through which he's experiencing the life as yunfeng mentioned above. During that time, he'll know more about what he's good at.
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞFailure in former exams or in job hunting is temporary. And many suffer from this kind of embarrassing moments. Me suffered as well.
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞBUT, what should be kept in mind with no doubt is "Keep the Faith" and do not stop moving. Keep trying and trying. Chances will present to you if you are firm enough.
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞFYI.
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞRegards
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞLoyce 01-19-2006, 13:27
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞThanks YunFeng, and thanks Savage as well :)
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞI did not mention that he has been working for 3 years in Bank, of course, experienced a lot of things about living. To him, the current job is steady and good-pay. Because it is a hard time for him to find a good job, he doesn't like the job and doesn't want to give up at same time. He love someone but he can not stay with her, coz she is not Beijingese. So, I think coz all above mentioned, he felt very pressed. and hate everything..
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞIs there any comment/experience that we can tell him, so that he could know&choose whatever he likes&wants? I guess the big problem is himself. How can we change his thinking...he is quite traditional , isn't he?
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·Þsavagextakuya 01-19-2006, 17:00
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞYou are welcome, Loyce.
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞBank is a stable enviroment. Thus, the work is regular and routine.
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·Þwell, it seems that the problem now is what kind of life does your friend want to live.
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞHe prefer money or creative and challenging job?...
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞCommments and experiences are just for his reference. It all depends on him, himself to make a final decision. We cant change his thoughts or decide for him i think.
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞTry to be calm and look deep into his heart.
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·Þyunfeng 01-19-2006, 17:35
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWell, there's a saying God helps those who help themselves. I think in such circumstances you almost can do nothing but let him know that he has friends like you around him.
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞLoyce 01-19-2006, 19:39
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞTo Savage:
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·Þhe prefer challenging and productive job ( productive means earning a lot of money). The reason he hate current job is because it is really a routine, almost everyday is same. no change. And the colleagues are quite realistic, the relationship is not so well! BTW, this job is not found by himself, instead his parents got this job for him. So, in some extent, he is weak. he never try to find a job by himself, which make him not so self-confident. His situation/thoughts is quite complicated.
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞTo Yunfeng:
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞYou are right. he is the only one to help himself.
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞThanks you guys for giving me so much helpful opinions. thank you so much .. !!!!
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞI will try to help him out.
WåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞWåÈËIenpf.chinabroadcast.cnÕý0UmõÁ·ÞCNY is coming...long Holiday is coming...hahaha.....I'll back home to see my dear parents.:)
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